Believe You Can and You're Right
Marie went in to interview for a job she was fully qualified for. But she'd had several recent interviews, and hadn't received an offer from any of them. As a result, she didn't have the best attitude going into this situation. When she didn't get the position, she said, "I knew it. I didn't think I was going to get it." Unfortunately, she got what she expected. Her belief became a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The attitude you have when you approach a challenge, or a change, greatly determines your outcome. Henry Ford said, "Whether you think you can or think you can't - you're right." Your belief will affect your actions and the way you project yourself. If you don't think you'll be successful in a venture, you won't give it 100% of your effort. You might think you do, but part of your energy will be held back to deal with potential disappointment.
Think about a recent goal you had. Did you believe that you could achieve it? What was your attitude towards it? You may have spent lots of time and action to move it in a positive direction. But if you didn't believe that you would be successful, guess what? It would be unlikely that you could achieve your goal.
I've worked with hundreds of smokers in my practice and classes. If they repeat to themselves, "I can't quit," then it will be practically impossible for them to quit. When the smoker changes their attitude to "I can quit," their subconscious works with them to make it possible. Until then, no matter what tools and techniques they use, they'll be fighting against themselves and the directives they've been giving their inner mind. Your subconscious seeks to prove your belief is correct.
Your subconscious must act on what you tell it. If you want a new direction in your life, or to accomplish a goal, first you have to believe that it's possible. Your subconscious will take its cue from where you focus your attention. Taking action without believing that you can be successful undermines your abilities and determination. You might make progress, but it'll be a hard road with few rewards in comparison to the amount of labor you've put into it.
If you're thinking, "This is never going to work," then your subconscious will follow your direction. Not only that, if opportunities do come your way, you won't be aware of them. Your subconscious will filter them out of your consciousness. It will be as if they don't exist. Either you won't recognize them or you'll dismiss them. Your subconscious mind has to be congruent with your beliefs.
However, if you decide, "This has a good possibility of being successful, and I'll do everything I can to accomplish it," your subconscious will help you. For instance, when you're choosing to change a habit, your inner mind will be in alignment with your goal and make it easier. If you're working on a project, opportunities and information may drop into your lap.
What if you want to improve a corner of your life, but aren't sure you will be able to believe you can accomplish it? Are you doomed to failure? Not necessarily. The more difficult you believe a goal will be to attain, the more commitment you have to bring to it as you work towards the goal. Your attitude needs to at least entertain the possibility that you can be successful. Then you need to put more effort into the steps that will bring it to fruition.
Make sure your attitude isn't one of "Just going through the motions," because that will short-circuit your efforts. Take small steps, and praise yourself when you successfully complete each one. Your activity and dedication will impress your subconscious with the importance of your goal.
You may take two steps forward and one back, but you will start to make progress. And as you recognize the positive results of your efforts, and begin to believe that it is possible, your progress will accelerate.
Combining a positive attitude with being willing to do whatever is necessary to succeed is an unbeatable recipe for success. When you believe you can, your subconscious will help you to be right.
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As a focus coach, hypnotherapist, and speaker, Linda-Ann Stewart motivates women to focus and transform their business through deliberate actions that break through distraction and overwhelm to greater success, freedom, wellbeing and prosperity. Watch her FREE training video on Set Your Course to Success: 4 steps to strategically achieve your goals with confidence and ease. Register for the video and accompanying action planning guide at www.SetYourCourseGuide.com. You can contact her at LAS@Linda-AnnStewart.com or 928-600-0452.
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